less noise. more life.
The refusal to let speed, scale and urgency run your life.
Hi. I’m Steven.
I’ve been chasing a feeling for most of my adult life. Not happiness exactly. Not success. Something quieter—harder to name. And it seems like other people are feeling it too.
I finally found a word for it.
I call it Slowiness™
Even before I sold my suburban house in the States in 2015 and everything in it—and packed what was left in a carry-on bag—I knew for a long time something was off about the speed, scale and intensity I was being pressured to live at.
In a trifecta of despair, I call it the ‘3 D’s’: divorce, a dead dad, and a dead dog, I leapt into the unknown at 42.
That leap turned into a decade: nomad-ing to 65+ countries while knocking off bucket list adventures, and eventually a permanent move to a beach town in Portugal I now call home. People kept asking what I was running from.
Nothing, as it turned out.
Slowiness is what I was running toward.
Not slow living as an aesthetic. Not mindfulness with a rebrand. Slowiness is the refusal to let speed and urgency be the default setting—for your days, your attention, your relationships, your definition of a life well spent.
Now I’m 55. I run a small consultancy helping people get calm, reliable control of their digital lives. Everything else I’m building runs on the same thread.
This is where I think out loud. If something here resonates, pull up a chair.
—Steven
things i’m building
some are live and some are in process.
all are interconnected to slowiness.
digital serenity
Most people’s digital lives are a mess—passwords everywhere, devices they don’t trust, files and photos unorganized. I help people rebuild their digital footprint. Calm systems, real control, nothing complicated.
vitamen
Men in midlife are being sold optimization. Vitamen is for the ones who’d rather actually get strong and reclaim their mojo. Food, movement, sleep—health as a byproduct of living well, not a project.
tanuvo
Minimal carry for people who move with intention. Built around functional training, not fashion. Early stage, new product category, clear direction.
slowiness
Not slow living as an aesthetic. The refusal to let speed and urgency be the default—for your days, your attention, your relationships. A philosophy worth living.
now
carcavelos, portugal. summer 2026.
- Building Digital Serenity—one client at a time, mostly word of mouth, mostly people who are done letting their devices run the show.
- Building this site. Writing when I can. Thinking less about what Slowiness means and more about what it looks like in practice—which is harder, and more interesting.