Coach Steven is Calling Bullshit.
There's a trove of misinformation and outdated perceptions about midlife and aging. The fact is that you have way more control over how well you age than you think.
10 Midlife Myths and Aging Fallacies
1. Midlife Crisis is Inevitable & Destructive
BULLSHIT! Midlife can be a time of self-discovery and positive change. I can help you leverage this life stage to reassess your goals, try new experiences, and find renewed purpose, leading to personal growth and fulfillment.
2. Aging Means a Decline in Productivity
BULLSHIT! Older individuals often bring a wealth of experience, wisdom, and expertise to their professions. Age can enhance one's problem-solving skills and strategic thinking, making older workers valuable contributors to the workforce.
3. Physical Fitness Declines with Age
BULLSHIT! While it's true that our bodies change as we age, maintaining an active and healthy lifestyle can lead to improved physical fitness throughout life. It's the ultimate 'use it or lose it'. I can help you reclaim or find a passion for exercise to help you stay active well into your senior years.
4: Midlife is a Time of Regret
BULLSHIT! Instead of regret, midlife can be a time for reflection and making amends. Many individuals use this period to address past mistakes, mend relationships, and find closure, leading to a sense of peace and contentment.
5. Older People Can't Adapt to Technology
BULLSHIT! The idea that older individuals can't learn or adapt to new technologies is outdated. Many seniors embrace digital tools, social media, and other tech innovations, proving that age is not a barrier to staying connected and informed.
6. Romance and Passion Fade with Age
BULLSHIT! Love and romance can flourish at any age. In fact, many couples find that their emotional connection deepens over time, and intimacy can be more profound in later years due to a deeper understanding of one another.
7. Financial Success Peaks in Youth
BULLSHIT! While youth offers unique opportunities, financial success is achievable at any age. Many individuals start new businesses, invest wisely, or pursue creative ventures later in life and achieve significant financial milestones.
8. Midlife is a Time of Loneliness
BULLSHIT! Actually, this one can and is more common than I would like to see. Midlife can be a period of strong social connections and community involvement. People often find themselves surrounded by a supportive network of friends and family, enjoying meaningful relationships.
9. Aging Equals Mental Decline
BULLSHIT! While cognitive changes occur with age, it doesn't necessarily mean mental decline. Lifelong learning, mental exercises, and staying intellectually engaged can keep the mind sharp and vibrant well into old age.
10. Retirement Means an End to Purpose
BULLSHIT! Retirement can be a time of renewed purpose and exploration. Many retirees discover new interests, volunteer, or pursue long-held passions, leading to a sense of fulfillment and purpose in their post-career years.
F✳︎ck Those Myths.
At Vitamen I help men in midlife shatter aging stigma and instead to reclaim and embrace their full vitality with kickass wellness and health coaching. Because It's time to f✳︎ck those myths—and Defy Decline!
I can't thank Vitamen enough for helping me regain my vitality and overall sense of well-being. Steven's personalized coaching and guidance has truly made a positive impact on my life. I highly recommend him to any man in midlife looking to improve their physical and mental health.
- Josh E. 56, Cleveland, OH, Software Engineer